How to Invest in Yourself to Achieve your Greatest Potential - Part 1: Purpose, Vision and Direction
What’s this article about?
In 2019, I had
the opportunity to design and deliver a workshop for a qualification I
was doing, which was really exciting and also a little frightening, my
first facilitated workshop. Over the last 10+ years I’ve learned to
invest in myself and my own development and have made a lot of progress
towards realising my own potential. I saw this as an opportunity to
collate what I’d learned and create something of value for others. I put
a lot into the workshop and it went great and was one of the proudest moments
of my career so far. This is my first attempt at writing an article on
this subject. I’m going to discuss various theories and approaches to
investing in yourself and achieving your greatest potential, starting
with the topic of purpose, vision and direction, which I feel is the
best place to start. I hope this is useful to you.
Follow your individual interests
So how does
one discover their purpose, vision or direction? At any stage of life, I
feel that the key idea is to start by exploring your own individual
interests in the first instance and see where this takes you. Sometimes
this can take you to a dead end, in which case you at least have
discovered something that is not for you. As the famous Thomas Edison
quote goes, “I have not failed. I have just found 10,000 ways that don’t
work”. When I finished school I had no idea what I wanted to do but I
knew that physics was the subject I found the most interesting at school
and so I went to university to continue studying physics there. I hated
it and dropped out at the end of the first semester but at least I
learned one thing that wasn’t for me.
Explore and develop your unique, individual qualities
We
each have our own individual qualities and areas of strength, and of
weakness. I believe it is key to success, as well as a lot more fun, to
focus most on identifying and developing strengths, rather than
correcting weaknesses. People who achieve great success in any endeavor
do so through maximizing a small number of key strengths, not by
correcting their weaknesses.
One of the best tools I have benefitted from is “Strengths Finder 2.0” by Tom Wrath. I found the insights into my strengths and how to further develop them very accurate and beneficial. For example, one of my strengths is organising information and one of my suggestions was to invest in furniture that will help me organise my information. Later when I moved into my own home, I turned one room into an ‘office’, with a desk, bookshelf and chest of drawers, all dedicated to my purpose, vision and direction. This has really contributed to my development and the realization of my potential. Of course your strengths and the ideas on further developing them might be very different than mine.
Think about what, specifically, you want
So, I
feel that exploring and developing our individual interests and
qualities are key to developing our sense of purpose and direction in
life. I also think that whilst this can lead to one developing a
personal vision naturally, and has to an extent in my life, what also
really helped me is conducting exercises for the purpose of thinking
about and reflecting on goals and desired outcomes in life. One of the
best tools that I have used to this end is the exercise on goal setting
in Tony Robbins concise book, ‘Notes From a Friend’. The approach in the
book suggests essentially sitting down and reflecting on everything you
would like to achieve in life, from your current perspective, writing
it all down in succinct and if possible quantifiable items, and
subsequently writing out four or so SMART goals to achieve this year,
based on the results of your reflective exercise.
This approach has worked very well for me. In Arnold Schwarzenegger’s autobiography, ‘Total Recall’, he mentions that he sets goals in a similar fashion, setting concrete goals each New Year’s Day. At one point he also mentions being unsure about his future direction and saying that he was not worried about this because he believed that his vision would crystalize, “in its own good time”, and explaining that he works towards his vision with the use of his concrete, annually set goals. I think this is an excellent philosophy and approach. I personally took this idea very much to heart. I would describe discovering your vision as looking up at the peak of a mountain, which being so far away, is covered in mist and cannot be seen as clearly as what is right in front of us. In order to move towards it, on a basis of maybe once a year, I ‘look up at the peak’, visualize it as clearly as I can and then decide on concrete goals/plans to take me towards it. After achieving these goals, I then recalibrate and create my new strategy.
Long-term vision OR short-term focus
There are
many other ways to go about this stuff. To give you two more examples
which I see as being at either side of a scale (though not mutually
exclusive), on the one hand, in ‘Tools of Titans’ by Tim Ferris, the
former gymnastics coach Christopher Sommer discusses essentially
defining the long-term goal(s) that matter most to you and then simply
working towards them without setting any short-term goals. The ethos is –
“Achieving the extraordinary is not a linear process… the secret is to
show up, do the work, and go home… A blue-collar work ethic married to
indomitable will. It is literally that simple. Nothing interferes.
Nothing can sway you from your purpose… accept that quality long-term
results require quality long-term focus. No emotion. No drama. No
beating yourself up over small bumps in the road. Learn to enjoy and
appreciate the process.”
Conversely, the peerless Jimi Hendrix
once said, “My goal is to be one with the music. I just dedicate my
whole life to this art”. This approach is one of, having chosen your
purpose, direction, profession, or calling etc., basically dedicating
yourself to the process of mastery in that area, without necessarily
nurturing a vision, and seeing where that takes you. As you can see
there are many ways to go about this. I would encourage you to reflect,
experiment and discover for yourself what resonates the most with you,
and what is ultimately optimal for helping you to invest in yourself to
achieve your greatest potential.
I hope this helps someone, feel free to let me know what you think and/or ask any questions you might have.